What a Man Wants: A Guide to Understanding His Needs
Understanding a man's core needs and how to meet them can strengthen your relationship. This guide outlines key areas where your actions can make him feel appreciated, respected, and deeply loved.
I. TO WORK & ACHIEVE
He wants recognition for his efforts and successes, both professionally and personally.
Thank him for going to work and contributing.
Cheer his successes in both work and sports.
Ask him about his dreams and aspirations.
II. TO PROTECT & PROVIDE
He feels fulfilled when he can take responsibility and ensure your well-being.
Show that you look up to him for feeling responsible for you.
Let him know you're touched by the thought that he'd "die for you."
Praise his commitment to provide for you and the family.
III. TO BE STRONG, LEAD & MAKE DECISIONS
He needs to feel capable, respected for his leadership, and trusted with decisions.
Tell him he's strong; perhaps playfully squeeze his muscles.
Praise his good decisions.
Honor his authority, and if you disagree, do so in private.
IV. TO ANALYZE & COUNSEL
He wants to be valued for his problem-solving skills and intellectual input.
Thank him for his advice and knowledge.
Let him fix things and applaud his solution-oriented approach.
If you just need an ear, tell him up-front that you only need him to listen, not provide a solution.
V. SHOULDER-TO-SHOULDER
He desires companionship, shared activities, and personal space.
Tell him you like him.
Engage in or watch recreational activities with him.
Encourage him to have alone time for his own pursuits or interests.
VI. SEXUAL INTIMACY
He values active participation and understanding in the physical aspect of your relationship.
Initiate intimacy periodically.
Respond to his advances more often.
Acknowledge his sexual temptations without shame or judgment.
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